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Helpful guides and a little inspiration for planning your day with us, whether you are choosing a venue or styling a celebration.

The white pavilion, pergola and gardens at The BarnYard on a summer day
Featured readWeddings

How to Choose the Perfect Wedding Venue

The full list of questions to ask a wedding venue before you book, every one answered honestly for The BarnYard. Capacity, ceremonies, food, money, the evening and the practical details.

January 202512 min read
The Orchard Garden gazebo at The BarnYard, set for an outdoor ceremony
Weddings

Outdoor Weddings in Kent: What the Weather Really Does

Met Office rainfall figures for Kent, month by month, and what they actually mean for an outdoor ceremony. Plus the four wet-weather questions worth asking any venue.

August 20268 min read
A company dinner at The BarnYard, with round tables filling the Arboretum pavilion
Events

Company Days Out in Kent, Beyond the Meeting Room

How to plan an away day people actually turn up to. What makes a venue work, which day of the week to pick, and the four shapes a company day usually takes.

August 20267 min read
A tiered afternoon tea stand at The BarnYard with scones, cakes and homemade lemonade
Restaurant

Afternoon Tea or High Tea? A Kent Guide

The difference between afternoon tea and high tea, settled properly, plus what order to eat it in, the scone argument, and what a good one should cost.

August 20267 min read
Chairs set out facing the ceremony gazebo at The BarnYard, with lavender in the foreground
Planning

Getting Married in Kent: The Legal Bit, Explained

Giving notice of marriage in Kent, the 28 day rule, what it costs, what to take with you and who does what on the day. The unglamorous paperwork, set out in order.

August 20268 min read
The glass pavilion and gardens at The BarnYard in Kent on a bright summer day
What's On

A Year at The BarnYard: What's On, Season by Season

What happens here through the year, from blossom and high tea to the Halloween orchards and the Christmas season, with opening times and how far ahead to book each thing.

August 20267 min read
Aerial view of The BarnYard at Upchurch, surrounded by apple orchards and open Kent countryside
Restaurant

Dog Walks Near Upchurch, With Lunch at the End

Where to walk a dog around Upchurch and the Medway, how muddy it gets, and where you can sit down afterwards. Short, and free of anything you did not ask about.

August 20266 min read
The ceremony pergola at The BarnYard set with chairs, with white blossom in the foreground
Planning

How Far Ahead Should You Book a Wedding Venue?

How far in advance couples really book, which months disappear first, and whether you can still pull a wedding together in under a year. From four years of our own weddings.

August 202611 min read
The Roost at The BarnYard, a light oak-beamed room with round tables and doors open onto the gardens
Celebrations of Life

Arranging a Celebration of Life: A Gentle Guide

A practical guide to arranging a wake. How long it should last, how many will come, what food to put on, and the five questions worth asking a venue.

August 202610 min read
A plated Sunday roast at The BarnYard in Kent, with beef, Yorkshire pudding and a jug of gravy
Restaurant

Sunday Lunch in Kent: What Makes a Good One

What a proper roast should involve, how to spot the shortcuts from your seat, and whether you really need to book. Written from 886 days of actual service.

August 202610 min read
A flower girl running down the aisle beneath the Lavender Walk pergola at The BarnYard
Weddings

Civil Ceremony vs Church Wedding: Which Is Right for You?

The legal steps, what each ceremony can include, the costs and the shape of the day, compared honestly to help you choose the ceremony that feels like you.

July 20268 min read
The oak rafters of the Apple Barn draped in thousands of fairy lights
Weddings

Rustic Barn Wedding Venues in Kent: An Honest Buyer's Guide

What the rustic barn label really covers, and the checks barn venues often fail: heating in winter, wet-weather plans, real capacities, corkage and catering. A guide for comparing any venue fairly.

July 20268 min read
A couple seated on the hillside at The BarnYard, looking out across the orchards
Planning

The Wedding Venue Viewing Checklist

How to prepare for a viewing, then the full checklist for the day: the spaces, the ceremony, food and drink, the money, the evening and the practical details. Print it and take it with you.

July 20267 min read
The Arboretum dressed for Christmas at The BarnYard
Christmas

Planning a Christmas Party at The BarnYard

Mixed party nights, exclusive Apple Barn hire, Christmas Lunch, Christmas High Tea and a Christmas Eve Brunch. The full picture of what Christmas at The BarnYard looks like.

September 20255 min read
A sharing grazing board at The BarnYard
Food

A Foodie's Guide to Your Wedding Breakfast

Ten starters, eight mains, seven desserts and a legendary apple pie. Walking through the full BarnYard wedding breakfast menu so you can choose with confidence.

May 20254 min read
A couple exchanging vows at The BarnYard
Planning

Your Wedding Day, Hour by Hour

From the morning dressing rooms to the last song at midnight, a complete running order to help you picture exactly how the day flows.

April 20255 min read
A couple at their wedding ceremony in the fairy-lit Apple Barn at The BarnYard, Kent
Weddings

What Does a Wedding at The BarnYard Actually Cost?

The straight answer to the question every couple asks. What is included, what is extra, and the fees nobody warns you about.

March 20257 min read
A baby shower beautifully styled and decorated at The BarnYard
Baby Showers

Tips for Decorating Your Baby Shower Venue

Choosing the space that matches your theme, working with fairy lights already in place, the photo wall and styling the food. A BarnYard-specific guide to dressing the day.

February 20256 min read
Bride and groom in The BarnYard orchards at golden hour
With love and excitement

Come and see The BarnYard for yourself

The BarnYard truly has to be seen to be believed, especially once the sun sets and thousands of fairy lights bring the venue to life. Book a viewing with our wedding team.